Anatomy Of Peace

The Arbinger Institute packed The Anatomy of Peace with transformative tips. Below are my notes. 

When our hearts are at war we can’t see clearly. How we disagree is more important than if we disagree. Don’t horribleize others.  Justification: Do you need enemies more than you need peace? Create a out-of-the box safe place for others by not blaming others. Care enough about others to be curious. Judging happens when we care more about our self than others. If continuous correction isn’t fixing the problem, then more correction won’t work. Fix your way of  being instead. Invite not incite change. Invite cooperation. Strengthen the relationship if your teaching doesn't seem to work.