09/03/2020

Choose The Right, Let The Consequences Follow

Less Effective vs More Effective Marriages

Me/mine        Ours/yours
Lust                Love
Force              Allow
Push               Retreat/Relax/Relent
Take               Give 
Action.          Action over time ( see Brave Marriage Podcast)
Livefor sex   Lifelong sex
Destroy           Create
Now                Evolve
Yell              Learn
Fix                   Empathize 
Spouse is a priority         Spouse is your top priority 
Frantic            Still
Panicked        Chill 
Yell                  Collaborate
Urges              Intimacy 
Unchanging   Iterations 
Version 1.0.    Version 209
Anarchy         Order 
I've got this   God's got us
Lecture          Learn together 
Blame            Take responsibility 
Demand trust  Be honest and trustworthy
Escape alone  Vacation together
Despair           Trust
Argue.          Butterfly-branches-flowers-and-sky-1401674-1599x1066 Discuss Tough Issues

Sep 3, 2020 8:05:30 PM

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