Families are replete with problems. And we often want answers and confirmation before moving forward.
Think of a college student taking a Geology class. At first the Professor and textbooks have all the answers. And the student knows little about Geology. But eventually the student becomes self-reliant--thinking for herself based on internalized knowledge. The student doesn't have to constantly ask the Professor or consult her textbook. The student simply knows for herself.
With an abundance of problems there are many problems which are unsolvable. Or at least the problem doesn't have a perceivable solution at first. We must simply move forward without a solution.
We trust that the numerous packets of light and truth (photons?) we have received over years are sufficient for us to advance confidently into an unknown-to-us future.
Gain knowledge. Become the Professor. You know enough to move forward.
https://anchor.fm/thriving-twogether/episodes/Unsolvable-Solutionists-And-Becoming-eev2lb
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