Crockpots and flowers (are you in love or out of love?)

Couples often wonder if they can fall out of love. I'm not sure.

I do know that love can die through neglect. 

And if you want to grow love, then you will need to work at it. Discovering how your spouse feels loved and then delivering love accordingly is key to long-lasiting relationships.

Couples who have mutual respect for each other have an easier time serving each other and finding the good.

Love those you serve, and serve those you love (and especially serve your spouse when you hate him/her).*

True romance is much more than looks, money, or humor. It's work. 

Sacrifice fuels the flames of romance.

Women typically feel loved when affection (without expectation) is shown. 

Women are like crockpots--needing time to warm up.

Men are like microwaves, they heat up fast.

Love blooms like a flower with time and attention. 

So, are you 'in love' or 'out of love?' Show me your works. 

 

*Ancient teaching, not mine