Push, drag, pull or...

Lift.

Accusations, complaining, and fault-finding are attempts to coerce others by a method other than lifting.

Spouses who discipline self and lift others are refreshing.

Friends and relatives who have loved me to higher heights are unanimously lifters.

No other method produces enduring results like lifting.

Persuasion, encouragement and belief are a few tools of the lifter.

Nag less. Pull less. Push less.

Rise up. Lift up. Love up.