Money doesn't matter...

..as much as family. Paradoxical Intention explains that the very way to be blessed with money is to not chase it. 

By focusing on things money can't buy (family, friends, talents), we serendipitously get money.

Of course we must follow basic wealth-building guidelines, but we actually prevent wealth accumulation when we obsess about wealth. Focus on family and dilligently study wise money techniques to bless your family.