Quite often in life we are allowed a "do-over."
Golfers call it a Mulligan: a second shot to correct a poor shot.
In money matters we often extend the narrative, do the same thing we have always done.
But we do have a choice to use our second chances to change.
We make a mistake by buying an overpriced car.
A few years later we seize the second chance to get a good deal by doing symphonic homework.
We start a small business only to fail in the first few years.
We start over by building another business and perhaps using chronos to our advantage.
The only mulligans that are final are the ones we refuse to use.
The fatalistic idea that "I'm no good"/ "Failure is final" /"Why bother?"
As a teenager I learned what a Mulligan isn't.
During a mini-golf game I embarrassed myself in front of two friends.
I attempted the same unsuccessful putt on one hole so many times that we stopped counting.
Finally, in frustration, I smashed the ball so hard that it
clobbered another player standing several holes away.
I learned that a Mulligan is a "do-over," not a "do-the-same-thing and hope for different results."
The trick is to know that Mulligans exist for each individual
and then use the gifted-second chance to change for the better.
All of us have many opportunities to use a Mulligan to start a new narrative.
A tax return, more learning, an inheritance, a wise friend,
or a great book allow us a much needed Mulligan.
What would you like to change about your story?
What will your second chance be?
Feel free to comment below. I'd love to hear your thoughts.
(photo courtesy Stuart Miles)
I certainly have had my share of "mulligans" on the golf course and in business. Starting now and in the future, I will be more bold and willing to take risks. I've finally discovered the right presentation, having confidence and seeing a business through (sometimes to the bitter end, other times to total success) is what really matters most.
Posted by: Tammy | 03/26/2012 at 07:29 PM
Thanks for sharing Tammy. Sounds like you are headed in the right direction. Hope to hear more of your thoughts in the future.
Posted by: Ryan | 03/27/2012 at 08:50 AM
Love this. we have made many a better choice the second time around. Grateful for mulligans! Great post :)
Posted by: Rebecca Miller | 03/30/2012 at 12:43 PM
Thanks. Glad your enjoying the posts. I love Mulligans too:)
Posted by: Ryan | 03/30/2012 at 12:58 PM